the One

  It's often tough to find the One in our lives. And by the One, I mean THE 'One'. The ultimate and special person who has special magnetic powers that draws you towards them to hold on forever. Sometimes we think that we've found them, but it turns out to be wrong. Which is why the rate of divorce cases are still hiking up Mount Everest. But sometimes, we don't realize that we've really found the One, and take things for granted. While we ourselves may not realize that, the people around us do. There's this Chinese saying "当局者迷，旁观者清" which means those closely involved cannot see as clearly as those outside. (and btw I had to google translate and paste this cause I have no idea how to type Chinese characters on my computer -___-)

  I know a friend who is currently in a similar situation, and it just drives me crazy. I know it's none of my business, but still, I can't help it. They make such a perfect couple! And why? Here's why:

1) He has feelings for her
2) She has feeling for him
3) How they met in NS and still managed to keep in contact after all these while is crazy. I personally hate NS (thank you Dude up there for sprinkling such amazing good luck on me. You're awesome) to the max. So, yeah.

4) They have probably the same views on almost everything

5) They're halfway to becoming in-laws for both side of the family already.

  So, what's the problem here?

NO ONE WANTS TO TAKE THE FIRST STEP

  I know, it's hard. And I myself have issues with expressing my feelings. BUT, this is different. They both like each other, and both their friends know that they like each other. In fact, we've been playing the matchmaker/middle-person role for quite sometime. Gathering information on the other person via someone and trying to help them cause it's really nice to see a happy couple and know that somehow by some miracle you helped them get there. Of course, it's normal if you don't want to get into a relationship. But I think that it would be great if you could just let the other person know how you feel, so that if they feel the same way too, your time will come one day. Leaving one person in the dark, clinging on to that tiny strand of hope that you feel the same way too is just too torturous. Eventually that tiny strand will dissolve into darkness, just as their feelings for you will eventually fade and subside. 

  If only life had a perfect plan for us, things would have been much more easier. This, for example.

  I don't know what you guys think, but I find it really sweet and adorable to spent the rest of your live with the person you love. And looking back to see how they both grew up together, and spent practically every awesome moment together. The second last picture is kinda sad tho. I somehow find the next picture (below) interesting, and kinda cool. Just imagine, and afterlife with your beloved and you still get to dance to MJ's Thriller while scaring the shit out of the whole world LOL.

  If only life can be that way. Not the zombie dancing part (though I secretly hope it happens cause it's freaking cool wtf), the other part. Anyway, I really hope this friend of mine really does something about his relationship cause I seriously have this urge to punch him in the face for making the girl wait so long (it's torture I tell you. TORTURE!)

























Just kidding LOL.